For a parent
Start with the parent or one of their parents. Include two to four generations depending on how much material is available. A book from the parent's maternal or paternal side can be more coherent than combining every branch in the first gift.
For a grandparent
Begin with the grandparent and keep living people on if the book should show children and grandchildren near the opening. Earlier generations provide context, but the grandparent's own photos and memories are likely to draw the first conversation.
Ask for help without giving away the gift
A sibling, cousin, aunt, or uncle may know whether a portrait is mislabeled or a story is missing. Share a short list of profiles to check instead of the whole book. Make source corrections before the final build.
Choose how the family will receive it
Order a printed copy for the main recipient and use a PDF for relatives who live elsewhere. If several households need print copies, enter the total copy count when requesting the quote.
